
Dear CC,
I recently found your site bookmarked on my boyfriend¹s computer. Problem is I¹m a straight girl, and he is supposed to be a straight guy. Just the other day while I was using his computer I found several gay porn sites on his history files. And although I have always thought that he was a metrosexual, I¹m starting to wonder if he is really gay or not?
Hopelessly Confused Girl
Dear Hopelessly Confused Girl,
First off, it's KC and not CC. CC makes me sound...I dunno...I just don't like it. Second I would just like to say that this is what happens when some straight men steal our lifestyle without fear of getting bashed while holding their partner's hand, you can't have your cake and eat it too. Before metrosexuality became an "in" thing, it was quite easy to tell a gay guy from a straight one. Seriously, there are some straight men who visit the blog and although I still can't understand why...they do...or so they claim. Third, have you forgotten the saying "Curiosity killed the cat"? You my dear shouldn't have been snooping around your boyfriend's computer, so now honey you might not have killed the cat, but you sure did let it OUT of the closet ooops I mean bag.
Now being a good guy that I am (yeah right!), I'm going to call it as I see it. I don't expect any straight guy, metrosexual or not to have any gay porn stashed away in his computer not unless its the lesbian kind. Now with that out of the way, have you ever noticed if he checks out his guy friends? Or when you watch a movie or tv? Does he notice hot guys instead of girls? If your answers to both questions are yes...I think I have a parachute here in case you wanna bail out.
If you still need some convincing, I've read an advice posted somewhere a few years back, that you should get a dildo the next time you guys have sex...Oh yeah do you guys actually have sex? Is it good? If you guys haven't had sex I think you should start looking for another guy. Hahahaha. Anyway as I was saying the dildo is not for you sweetie, the next time you guys have sex, assuming you guys do, try it on him and see what his reaction would be. If he found it kinky and had you use it on him, I think without a doubt HE IS GAY...A GAY!
After saying all that, have you ever considered he might be bisexual or bi-curious? Hopefully for you're sake he is bisexual, but in case he is not he would make a great shopping buddy.
Good luck, KC
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Well this is my first try in writing an advice column...hopefully you guys liked it. If not I hope the guys would do the trick. LOL





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