Closet Conundrums

Yummylicious - Kerry Degman

Almost forgot to post again, got so busy and never realized the day was almost over. Anyway like what the title says, I'm crushing on Kerry Degman...I know it's quite late and almost all blogs have him posted for some time now but I don't really care.

Our Yummylicious Hottie is 19 years old, about 6'0" tall and from Portland, Oregon (USA). He's now with Major Models Management, who also manages the sexy Chad White but for today it's all about Kerry.

Well enough of the descriptions here's some of his photos:

If he can look good even with his shirt on, can you just imagine him without it?

Well you don't need to imagine anymore...here's him on a bed...and it just looks sooo comfy...

If that was a door, I don't think I'd ever want to go out!

Would you imagine having him there when you wake up and he makes breakfast for you? I really don't like the kitchen...but who cares, as long as he comes with it!

And if he comes to the gym tomorrow and strips next to me...I don't think my heart could take it. (If ever I miss my post, that means my friends weren't able to post bail)

Anyway more on the following page...enjoy.

Oh shoot!

OKAY it's not what you guys think...hahahaha...nobody is doing any shooting here...anyway what I mean is "Oh shoot, I almost forgot to post!"

Well here's today's boys...had a long day at work and by the looks of things tomorrow would be longer too.

Back-to-Church-Boyfriend and Law of Diminishing Returns

Dear KC,

Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 6 months then suddenly he sorta disappeared last week and started dodging my calls. When I go to his apartment, he never opens the door when I knock. I know he is there because I can see the shadow through the small opening at the bottom of the door. Then I got a text from him this morning saying that he has decided to go back to his Christian faith and repent for his sins and that I should do the same. I need your advice, what should I do?

Another Confused Boy

Dearest Another Confused Boy,

If you are gay and you are starting to think that being gay is sinful then you are really confused! The only thing you should do is walk away and move on. On second thought, I remember when my first BF broke up with me because he wanted to go back to "being straight", I actually planned on sending him a huge bouquet of roses to his work place with a huge card (purposely left unsealed) saying "Dear X, I had fun last night. See you tonight, SAM (or some very butch name)". I'm sure that would have blown the doors of his closet wide open...well if you wanna get even you might want to do that and make sure to deliver it while he is at a church gathering or something. ;-)

Seriously, he isn't worth it and don't even let him make you believe that being gay is wrong and sinful. Not wanting to sound so dramatic, but honey, you're gay, you're not a murderer, rapist or a robber.

Good luck, KC

P.S. Since you are already confused I'd forgive the "Me and my boyfriend" part...but next time it's "My boyfriend and I"...smile

Dear KC,

For the past few months my boyfriend and I have been having less and less sex. I'm worried that we're loosing attraction and he is getting bored. We have been living together for a few years now and this is the first time this has happened. Sometimes there are even weeks that we don't do it. I know we have been working stressful jobs and we usually get home very late and tired but I was hoping you could give me some suggestions to jump start our sex life.

Best Regards, Sex-Deprived-Boy

Dear Sex-Deprived-Boy,

Although I don't think I'm the right guy for you to ask about this, I'll try my best to give my two cents worth. First, I don't know about most of you guys but I think it's pretty normal that after a few years of living together there would be relatively less sex. When you weren't living together, chances are, you would have sex every chance you get. If ever you only meet once a week, then I'm sure you would find a way of doing it on that one day that you meet. But then if you have a chance to do it everyday, then missing a day doesn't matter too much (I think). Put it this way, if you were a chocolate "addict" and you were given free reigns on a chocolate shop for a day, I would bet big bucks that you would try all the chocolate in the store and gorge on every single chocolate treat in it. But then if you have it for 10 years, you could start being choosy and I don't doubt that after a few years you might even go on days without taking a bite.

What I'm saying is it's normal and you shouldn't really be worried that much. But if you want to try to do something about it. You might want to plan a romantic getaway, somewhere isolated where you could be together without thinking of your jobs. You could leave your phones on voicemail and leave everything at your place when you leave, packing only your clothes (not that you would need it) and some lube (which you would surely need and rubbers in case you still use it).

Your-Accidental-Guru, KC

P.S. You might want to check out Eric's blog at Restoring Love.

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Still have no idea what to call these posts...I think its gonna be a normal thing but I know how these "normal" things don't really last long here on my blog, so I hope you guys continue sending your emails so I could write about them more often.

I have a problem...

I have a problem...It's only 8:20pm and I'm sleepy...and no matter how hot these boys are...I'm still sleepy...although if I had one of them in my bed, I doubt I'd be able to sleep.

Anyway have a great weekend everybody!

AARRRRGGGG!

Busy day at work...had to work on lots of finance stuff, plus had to prepare for our meeting with a guy from the office of our Singaporean partner. And still busy preparing for our client presentation tomorrow.

And when I got home tonight one of the maids told me that they saw my aunt's driver (who lives across the street) was seen taking something from my car. I don't keep a lot of cash anyway so a few stolen doesn't really bother me at all. Although I know I have about 100 pesos of small bills which I always keep for parking and a few more 5 or 10 peso coins in the ashtray, I was a bit perturbed when I only saw 20 pesos left and my iPod was upside-down. The maids told me that when the driver saw them he closed the door immediately and left. Okay most of you are wondering but in our house we don't normally lock cars the same way we don't lock doors in our rooms. Anyway I'm more bothered by the iPod...if he was about to take it and placed it back in a hurry...then I'm really worried. Oh well...

I left my laptop adaptor in the office...so I better get this sent before the power runs out.

Blurry Monday

The day actually went by like a blur, so there isn't much to tell. Anyway over the weekend I got a new email from a reader...I think I'm gonna make it into a regular thing but the problem is I still haven't come up with a name yet. Well I'll come up with something...I hope.

Early Start

Woke up at 7am this morning...YES on a Saturday! Went to my chiropractor for my monthly maintenance check and therapy. Then went to the gym, but on the way to the gym I passed the gas station to fill up my gas tank (and kept kicking myself for not doing it yesterday before they increased prices...grrrr). Anyway the gas guy told me that there's a nail in one of my tires and I need to get it fixed, so after working out I headed out to a tire shop to get it done...I remember texting my friend that I feel so butch and straight for bring my car there...just being silly, I know...Well afterwards I went to the salon where I had a haircut and went back home by 1 in the afternoon...So now with everything done...I'm back in bed...just trying to catch up with as much rest as possible.

By the way since I sent out my early Pride greetings yesterday, I'm posting some photos I got from the LA Pride.

Well these boys aren't from LA Pride but they sure are just as yummy...

Never Thought I'd Say This...

But I want to go to Singapore. No offense to all Singaporean readers not that I don't like Singapore but having been there every 3-4 months it's starts to get boring. I never go to bars so after my meetings, I would usually find myself in a mall shopping then back to the hotel.

Like I was saying I really want to go to Singapore. Anyway I'm due for something there soon so I guess I'm gonna get what I want soon. It used to be the reasons why I want to go to Singapore is to get my stock of Royce Nama Chocolate, but now that they have it here I don't think I'd want to hand carry boxes (yes and I mean boxes) of chocolate home even if it costs double here. I heard they are selling a box for 620 pesos, while I remember a box in Singapore was about 12 dollars or about 360 pesos. Another reason why I need to go to Singapore is to get my supply of Aesop. I spent a small fortune buying my supplies last February when I gave up my Kiehl's products. And since I don't think they will be opening a shop here anytime soon, I really need to go and pick up my supplies. Other than Aesop there is on great reason for me to go to Singapore soon...and that is cookies. You heard me right...cookies. They tend to be round and sweet??? Cookies?!?

My bother's friend who came from Singapore gave my brother two tins from The Cookie Museum and I must say they are the most delicious cookies I've ever had...and I mean it. I haven't had anything this good...it's way better than sex...hmmm okay I'm exaggerating a bit. But at 30 dollars a tin, it's supposed to be good...hahahaha.

Those are the only ones left...they really feel lonely...I really should go to Singapore to pick up more of their friends. Here's some photos of The Cookie Museum in Singapore...looks soo nice.

Anyway it's getting late...I really want to go to bed. By the way I haven't heard anything about yesterday's post...

Feeling bad...

I really feel bad that I'm neglecting the blog and all the guys coming here. I know I have been very busy and uninspired of late, and with all honesty I don't know how to snap out of it. Things are stressful at home and at work, things that I expect to be the same for the next couple of months so all I could do is hang in tight and enjoy the ride.

Well on a nicer thought, things are getting a bit clearer about my trip to Europe. Change of plans, thinking of giving up my plans on taking Singapore Airlines and just take Etihad instead. At $4,000 for one business class ticket on SQ, I could get two business class tickets on Etihad so I can take my mom with me. Problem is, I don't think I could still go to Barcelona or Paris, because my mom wants to visit other places in Italy and I have to take her around.

I still feel bad about my email which got sent to my blog. I really didn't intend for it to get posted but I think its for the best. I wouldn't have otherwise had the guts to tell J directly. For what it's worth I appreciate him trying to reach out, but one I really have a hard time being friends with exes and two I asked for time and space before we could see each other again I guess it's my mistake that I didn't specify how much time I needed.

Longer Day...

Back in bed...too tired to write...By the way Happy Father's Day to all the Dads out there and a Happy Father's Day to all your dads.